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Charm School introduction text

Here is the text, what I said in the longer Jan.27 YouTube . . . We are here tonight to prepare for MIT’s Charm School.  You may think that MIT and charm don’t quite fit in the same sentence, but as a long time employee I can tell you that some engineers and even some...

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WSJ Are Chinese mothers better?

Well, actually, the title of the article was 'Why Chinese mothers are better' and in it the author, Amy Chua, described her very rigorous and apparently very successful parenting style.  My letter to the editor of the Wall Street Journal begged to differ: Amy Chua's...

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CIVICUS World Assembly in Montreal

CIVICUS World Assembly included Parents Forum . . . that is, I was there. Saturday morning's plenary panel, moderated by Nuala McGovern of the BBC World Have Your Say, asked for contributions from the audience and I suggested:...

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Parenting while plugged in, New York Times

One of my delightful daughters-in-law sent a link to this article on the risks of too much media use, not by kids, but by parents! http://www.nytimes.com/2010/06/10/garden/10childtech.html?pagewanted=1 Kids want and need good attention, for heaven's sake, and online...

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‘Babies’ and International Day of Families

'Babies' is in theaters now and I enjoyed seeing it. But it seemed odd that the movie showed so little parent-child interaction. Without much apparent help or support from their parents, four babies from different parts of the world -- Namibia, Mongolia, Japan and the...

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What do parents learn from each other?

The ‘desperate mom’ who contacted me two days ago did call back. I was able to pass along the telephone number of a wonderful social worker. But the key piece of the conversation with her was my describing my feelings, how I had experienced intense internal resistance...

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What do babies learn from us?

Parenting isn't rocket science, and babies aren't learning rocket science anyway -- although some them may grow up to be theoretical physicists -- but maybe, just maybe what they learn is even more difficult than all of that. I think that ** the most important things...

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What Parents Need to Succeed

Oh my goodness, I cannot believe that I missed posting this last May.  This is a short version, just over three minutes, of a half-hour panel discussion we held at Cambridge Community Television for International Day of Families.  See it on YouTube:...

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Where the Heart Listens available now

Mood swings are the order of the day: One minute I am excited and relieved to have the third edition of our handbook printed and in hand. The next minute I am caught in a wave of fear, doubt and insecurity.  But reading your favorable comments, dear readers ...wow......

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Each of us, doing what we can

I guess that's why we go to church, to be lifted up:  One of the lessons today was on the gifts of the spirit and how each of us receives our own particular gifts. The message reassured me, because I've been thinking that I am not doing enough or maybe just not doing...

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Response to earthquake disaster in Haiti

The disaster is geographically distant from me in Cambridge, Mass., and so enormous that it is very hard to grasp. But many Haitians live and work near us in Boston and are affected. How can we support them, as individuals and as parents? A booklist came to me from...

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New Year’s Resolutions

Yes, the usual: lose 20 pounds, exercise more ...and blog more often, to keep in touch with whomever may be reading my posts.  Whoooo are you? The third edition of Where the Heart Listens is at our printer and we are waiting for the final proof. Things always...

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When parents are taught these skills

...imagine similar, even stronger effect on children's behavior and emotional development! This is from the Public Education Network Weekly NewsBlast today October 9, 2009 Emotional and behavioral development paves the way to achievement According to a new report from...

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Tom Matlack comments on our work

Tom Matlack, creator of the Good Men Project, has this to say about our entry in Changemakers: I certainly applaud the work of Parents Forum, for kids, moms and specially dads. I am particularly sensitive to this issue as a formerly divorced dad facing spending time...

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Changemakers entry is in – Please comment

Deep breaths! The competition now enters the next phase.  Entries, including ours, are complete. I know because they told me: Congratulations! You have successfully entered the “Rethinking Mental Health: Improving Community Wellbeing” collaborative competition....

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Amanda’s comments on Changemakers

Amanda Frye, who was our very capable work-study administrative assistant when she was an MIT undergrad, just posted a comment to our Changemakers entry.  She spent several years in Teach For America. Thank you, Amanda!   I was involved with...

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End of Summer

It's official:  5:19, right now, is the Equinox.  The leaves are turning.  School has begun.  Last night I make a 'cameo appearance' on behalf of Parents Forum at board member William Sharp's class for divorcing parents which he holds at Boston...

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Changemakers – early round ends today

Our entry in this Ashoka competition funded by Robert Wood Johnson  http://www.changemakers.com/en-us/node/54679  has gotten over 250 'reads' putting us in the top ten out of 50 entries. Even if all you can do if take a quick look and send good...

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Changemakers entry getting good attention

So far, our entry in the Rethinking Mental Health: Improving Community Wellbeing has gotten over one hundred reads in less than a week.  Yeah! Posting a comment involves several steps, so please be patient and persistent when you go to the...

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Changemakers – we are in the game!

Yesterday I posted an entry for Parents Forum on Ashoka's competition Rethinking Mental Health: Improving Community Wellbeing. A wonderful topic because it is so broad.  Please take a look: http://www.changemakers.com, search for Parents Forum under that competition....

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Exchange Every Day

A good, but incomplete idea: The daily Exchange Every Day called for support for the Child Welfare League of America (CWLA)'s initiative to hold a White House Conference on Children and Youth in 2010.  My two cents ... This excellent initiative has the opportunity to...

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Affordable Health Choices Act

Just now, by fax, I asked Sen. Kennedy and Sen. Enzi = = > > Will you add parenting education and support to the benefits covered in the Affordable Health Choices Act. My question also appears as the latest, or one of the latest questions on Ask Your Lawmaker...

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That stinks?!

The title of the article, all science-speak, is 'Preliminary Investigation of Parent-Progeny Olfactory Recognition and Parental Investment' in the March issue of Human Nature.  As reported by Kevin Lewis in the Boston GLOBE Sunday (6-14-09), fathers who could...

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Wainwright Bank supports our handbook

Our former partner in Roxbury, Parents Management Inc., run by Hafeezah Bell, received a check intended for Parents Forum to support publication the third edition of our handbook Where the Heart Listens.  Hafeezah kindly called and I picked up the check....

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Mass. Service Alliance Fair

 June 4th, almost here!  On our way to the Massachusetts Service Alliance Fair tomorrow bright and early. Will be happy to meet many of the 400-plus attendees expected.  Jena Murphy our public relations advisor will be there to help out.  Yeah!...

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