Parents Forum Blog

Be part of “Voices of Parents Forum”

For our inaugural issue, August 1st Respect for Parents Day, please tell us = = > > What Parents Forum means, or has meant, to you! SEND US A FEW WORDS …up to 100 words, if you like… by email to info@parentsforum.org. Include your name and tell us the city and...

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“Parenting skills…” the real red flag

We recognize the need for immediate responses to the cascade of tragedies we experienced this last week. But a longer-term, positive and preventive response is also essential if we are to transform our communities so that atrocities like those in Dayton and El Paso...

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Not for Nothin’ …27 minutes

This week I enjoyed almost twice my lifetime allotment of fame! With deep gratitude to the many individuals who have helped Parents Forum over the past 25-plus years, I want to share the interview Susan Fleishman of Cambridge Community Television did with me. It is...

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Good news within bad news…

We didn’t make the short list ...sad face, but Parents Forum is recognized as an innovator in the Generation to Generation (Gen2Gen) campaign ...happy face! Gen2Gen offers an opportunity to spread the word and engage volunteers in parenting education and support at a...

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File under ‘We knew that!’

The Week’s ‘health scare of the week’ describes research on the negative effects of helicopter parenting. Nicole Perry, the lead researcher on the project, described June 18, 2018, by the American Psychological Association, said,           “Our findings underscore the...

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Believe in impossible things!

[ Note added, as I am posting on Memorial Day: On this solemn day let us all remember those who fight on our behalf and those whose deaths this day recalls. They allow us to enjoy a peaceful day. I gave this talk at Porter Square Books in Cambridge, Mass., on Sunday,...

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Love Me This Way

That’s the title of a book for children and parents, sent to me by the author Lee Aven, with a lovely, handwritten letter saying: = Dear Eve, = I share your interest in helping parents understand the skills of relationship through my own journey. I discovered that...

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A revelation and a plea

The revelation:
Parents Forum should be free, in part because support that is freely offered is simply priceless/ The other reason, which leads to the plea, is that nobody seems to want to pay for what we offer. Sad face.

The heartfelt plea:
Could you kindly make a small donation, or a large one, to support our peer support program as we move into our second quarter century? With a lot of volunteer effort over many years and wonderful support from community-minded businesses, Parents Forum is now celebrating its 25th anniversary. I cannot quite believe it, but it’s true.

If you are in or near Cambridge, Mass. please join us next Monday, May 15th, on International Day of Families
bit.ly/2ogng0z
for our anniversary celebration. Tickets are still available.

And, wherever you are, please take a look at this article
http://bit.ly/2qCLuUj
in the spring newsletter of the Massachusetts Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics.

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Our collective blind spot

Almost every day I read an article on children's issues that completely ignores parents. What is wrong with this picture? The Economist's otherwise terrific article "Poor children fall behind early in life. Better pre-school education could help" (June 25, 2016) did...

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Be the Change . . . award nomination

This quick word, with profound thanks to Sophia Luthuli in Soweto, South Africa, who nominated me, is to share a link: http://bit.ly/1TjMMKK The nomination for a Nelson Mandela - Graça Machel Award in the individual activist category is a great honor. It would be...

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Ch-ch-ch-changes

It seems that I was the 12,733,144-th person to listen online to this song by David Bowie, who is now, sadly, gone from us. I confess that I did not follow him ... something about being busy raising children, working and all that ... during his heyday. I have been...

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The wilderness right outside our doors

Scott Sampson's How to Raise a Wild Child affirms what I have long felt but couldn't explain: All of us, especially kids, need to connect with nature in all sorts of ways, large and small. He lays out the arguments for connecting children with the natural world and...

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If the people lead . . .

Bartletts, or else my search technique, has failed me. The quote I am looking for is, "If the people lead, the leaders will follow," and it came to mind yesterday when Parents Forum board and friends gathered yesterday to mark Respect for Parents Day. I think we need...

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Why do we so often think . . .

that economic justice is a problem only for poor people? that gender equity, along with sexual assault and sex trafficking, are concerns only for women? that intimate partner violence can be resolved by helping only the victims? that racial equality is an issue only...

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Today’s the day for donuts …and discussions

What's more important, treats or talk? Both are of course and I am a big fan of chatting. I hope to see some of the readers of this (very occasional) blog at Davis Square in Somerville (Mass.) this afternoon between 1pm and 3pm. The address is 250 Elm Street, near the...

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Report from Tunis, and FIEP

Steven Pinker ... a quote I read on a Chipotle bag, of all places ... said, "We will never have a perfect world, but it is not romantic or naive to work toward a better one." I am in Tunis this week for the 50th anniversary conference of the International Federation...

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Our goal as parenting educators

We want parents to raise compassionate children . . . http://nyti.ms/1m00bbn . . . right The parenting education and support that social services presently offer does not seem to do enough to help enough parents accomplish this goal. I suggest we consider more peer...

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A New Year’s Day telephone call

Last evening, back from a movie, I was sitting at the kitchen table enjoying a cup of tea. When the phone rang I thought it might be one of my sons, but it was another mother's child. The young lady, calling from Georgia (the state, not the country), said someone had...

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Struggling appropriately

That is the phrase I sometimes found myself using when people asked me about my kids, especially when they were teenagers, and it is what I hope I am doing now! Two months of home renovations consumed my summer and some tasks remain, painting, wallpaper still to go...

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Can we say the p-word: parents?

This counts as a base hit for the parenting education team, I think! I got a letter in the Boston Globe Ideas section today June 23, 2013 Ideas section, p. K6 OpinionExtra / Sunday Forum.  The link: http://b.globe.com/123GOTv  and the text: In discussing the problem...

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Parenting Without Borders, by Christine Gross-Loh

Once I recovered from my disappointment at reading the title, wishing I had used it first . . . smile . . . I very much enjoyed reading this new book and recommend it wholeheartedly. The take-away I find most compelling is that no one country's parenting practices are...

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Unplugged Schools

My sister wrote to me yesterday, mentioning a recent talk in Yellow Springs, Ohio, our hometown, by Lowell Monke. A quick search took me to Monke's article in a 2007 issue of Orion, an environmental magazine. I'll give you the link in a minute, but first: Monke...

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Shock, fear, sadness in Cambridge and Boston

This is all quite strange. The Boston Marathon bombings, four days ago, and now the city where I live, Cambridge, Mass. - - revealed as home to the perpetrators, one now dead and the other on the run - - locked down. All I know is that we are all in this together. We...

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USA Today ‘educating mom and dad’

If you agree that parenting education should be on the agenda in discussions of education, health care and workforce development, please read and sign our petition bit.ly/XGkgUf . The February 25 USA Today published six letters responding to President Obama's proposal...

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The World We Want – Tell the United Nations

This has possibilities! A message from the United Nations Non-Governmental Liaison Service mentions U.N. efforts to set development priorities for the year 2015 and beyond. You can make your voice heard on the issues here: http://www.myworld2015.org My choices were:...

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Response from Sophie in Soweto

This message from half way around the world came in response to our recent call for universal parenting education and makes me so happy!   "I read your article and I find it important.... I am a single parent of three... and find it difficult to cope.... I...

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Call for Universal Parenting Education goes live!

The most important responsibility any of us will ever have, raising children, and we receive next to no training? What's wrong with this picture? Part of the problem is the unfortunate stigma that keeps people who need help, even people who genuinely want help, from...

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Sandy Hook students go back to school

A touching interview with a parent at Sandy Hook, the father of triplets, 8 years old, reported by John Christoffersen and Pat Eaton-Robb for the Associated Press, ran today in the Boston Globe,. Asked about the re-opening of classes, the father admitted 'I'm nervous...

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